The best medicine

There is little doubt in my mind that having to wait longer for milestones means we appreciate them that much more when they come.

Turns out Corin’s monkey antics were just the thing to bring on Lina’s first real laughs. The video is dark and wobbly, and we didn’t catch the first round of laughs, which were even better. But I could watch it over and over, just the same.

Corin was terribly pleased at his success, and I even got my own little giggles this morning, tickling her neck with my kisses.

These are the moments I live for.

Happenings

The house is quiet, it’s not yet late enough for regret over not heading to bed right-this-minute, and so I will try to do a little catching up on recent events.

The big news around here is that Jon has a new job. He is stoked about this gig. Starting June 3, he will be chief technology officer for a start-up doing some pretty cutting-edge stuff in the field of wearable computing. (Call us gluttons for punishment, but it turns out start-ups are his thing. Also, do I get any geek cred for using the term “wearable computing” properly in a sentence?) It is not an easy thing for him to let go of day-to-day involvement with the start-up project that has been his baby for the last six years, but after some serious deliberation, we both agreed it was the right time for him to move on to new adventures. It’s a big change, but I love seeing how excited he is about this new project, which synchs with his interests and skills in uncanny ways. And added bonus: He will continue to be able to work from home. We anticipated that a job change would involve a possibly-lengthy commute to an office, so this feels like a gift, especially given the thoroughly-established expectation that work days will no longer bleed into the wee hours. Our kids are incredibly lucky to have a daddy who is present in their daily lives, even if it’s just to pop up to say hello or to grab a quick lunch between meetings. I know there are times Jon does not relish hearing the wails of three-year-old tantrums carrying down the stairs, and there may come a time when his company establishes a Nashville office and he is away from home during the day. But for now, this definitely lands in the “win” column.

Otherwise, life is proceeding relatively uneventfully. I have for a little while now been watching a sweet one-year-old girl one or two days a week. Corin loves Claire, and we have settled into a pretty manageable routine. I have even braved a couple outings with all three kids, and as with any new challenge, the trick is to just do it. (I guess Nike beat me to that revelation by quite a few years.) I’m developing biceps from carrying two babies around, which doesn’t hurt my feelings a bit. Also, I see a distinct advantage to Corin learning now to deal with a small person who wants to play with his stuff. They do pretty well together. You might even say they have a little romance going.

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Change comes. Life continues. We are tired but so very blessed. That about sums it up.

My day off

I am tired.

It’s surprisingly hard for me to type that sentence, there by itself. I want to apologize for it, to follow it up by saying that I know my gripes are so small compared to real problems, to caveat by noting all the moments that I look at my children and marvel at the privilege of being their mom, of sharing my days with them.

There is all of that. But the truth is, I am tired.

Lina is going through another phase of difficult feedings for heaven knows what reason (my suspicion: the wind is blowing the wrong direction), Corin is fulfilling the prophetic musings we heard from friends for years about how much harder age three is than two (see this blog post for a brilliant snapshot of recent days), and the list goes on with a lot of normal, everyday stuff that just adds up to a tired me, needing a break.

Which is why I am taking one.

This Sunday, Jon will be handling all parenting responsibilities, and I have glorious plans for sleeping in, a pedicure, shopping and whatever else happens to strike my fancy. All of this I will be doing alone. Gloriously, entirely alone. Me with my thoughts and an entire day of freedom.

Don’t mind me. I’m just doing a little giddy dance over here.

That sweet face – 8 months

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Eline at 8 months:

  • Weighs 15 1/2 pounds and is around the 67th percentile for weight and 65th for height on the Down syndrome growth charts
  • Is wearing a combination of 3-6 and 6-9 month clothes
  • Is increasingly vocal, with lots of vowel sounds, spitting and the occasional guttural “g” or buzzing “b” sound
  • Pays lots of attention to her surroundings, especially when brother is running around the room, and is easily distracted by activity or interesting visuals
  • Startles at loud noises and sympathy cries with other babies/children
  • Loves to be held, tickled, talked to, played with, read to and snuggled and often responds to interaction with big smiles, even from across the room
  • Has tolerated purees relatively well – oat cereal, banana, avocado, prunes and apples so far, with prunes being the clear favorite – and is learning to take bites off the spoon
  • Takes 5 oz. bottles of mixed formula/breast milk five times a day at around 7 a.m., 11-11:30 a.m., 3:30-4:00 p.m., 7 p.m. and 11 p.m.
  • Usually takes a shorter nap in the morning around 9 a.m. and a much longer nap in the afternoon starting around 12:30 – 1 p.m.
  • Goes to bed around 7 p.m. and sleeps until anywhere from 5:30 – 7 a.m. She will usually talk to herself and maybe doze a bit until we get her up around 7 a.m. Sleeps on her tummy and sucks her left-hand first and middle fingers. Usually gets a story and a few minutes of rocking and is then laid down sleepy but awake in her crib to put herself to sleep. I’ve also started giving her a little bunny lovey, which she seems to like to hold as she goes to sleep.
  • Loves to play with her feet, kick her legs high into the air and explore with her toes
  • Is still working on learning to sit unsupported and is not yet ready to crawl
  • Has her first tooth on the bottom right most of the way in and has just cut her bottom left tooth
  • Is on week two of thyroid medication, which has proven to be a hassle (The liquid medication has to be filled by a compounding pharmacy and is stable for only 8 days.)
  • Has appointments at Vanderbilt on the 29th with an endocrinologist for the hypothyroidism and an audiologist for her hearing aid evaluation

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Just the three of us

It’s just me and the kids for a couple days, so I took a picture yesterday to buoy our spirits while we miss our daddy. It may have taken a promise of mac and cheese for lunch to get Corin to cooperate.

That boy’s smiles are hard to capture these days. I’m practicing my trigger finger.

There is a lot happening in our world. Maybe sometime in the next, say, month, I’ll have time to sit down and write more about it. For now, we’re riding out a ridiculously slow spring in hopes that truly warm weather is just around the corner and thanking God for a lot of big blessings.

One appointment at a time

Yesterday was Lina’s second visit to the Vanderbilt Pediatric Down Syndrome Clinic. The visit entails a series of appointments with professionals who all specialize in Down syndrome, beginning with the pediatrician and moving on to a nutritionist and speech/feeding, physical and occupational therapists. It makes for a very long morning, but these appointments have so far been infinitely helpful, and the professionals who see Lina at the clinic know their stuff and are incredibly encouraging and supportive.

So here’s the run-down of her visit yesterday:

1.) She is growing beautifully – in the 65th percentile for height and 67th for weight on the DS charts – and is making great strides in her development, staying right on track with her speech and physical milestones.

2.) They are recommending she begin speech and physical therapy, not because of any specific concerns, but in order to best support her continued progress. A Down syndrome diagnosis alone would not qualify her for speech therapy at this age, but she does qualify based on her diagnosis of conductive hearing loss. Her physical therapy appointments will be in-home with the early intervention therapist, but we are leaning towards taking her to Vanderbilt for speech, where they have therapists specializing in kids with hearing loss. Her initial speech evaluation at Vandy is scheduled for next Thursday.

3.) They drew blood to check Lina’s thyroid function, and it came back low. Hypothyroidism is very common with Down syndrome, and thankfully, it is easily treated with a synthetic hormone she will take for the rest of her life. Didn’t prevent me from having that moment: “Great. One more thing that will make her different and require management.” She has an appointment with a Vandy pediatric endocrinologist next month. Ultimately, I’m thankful to have the knowledge and be able to treat the problem quickly to avoid complications.

4.) She now also has an appointment scheduled for September with a pediatric ophthalmologist at Vanderbilt for her first vision check.

Clearly, we are transitioning from the early days, when little was needed besides normal infant care, to a time of increasing therapy and medical needs. It’s requiring some shoring up of my courage to face the growing number of appointments, recommended therapy exercises and other expanding needs for Lina. But this is my job as her mama (with lots of help from her daddy), and I am determined to do it with all the strength I have. I came away from yesterday’s appointment encouraged. Lina is doing great, and we have such fantastic resources available to us. I love that we have the opportunity to equip her for a happy, successful life. I have big dreams for her, and they start here and now, one appointment at a time.

Row, row, row your boat

(Okay, you paddle, not row, a canoe, but that just didn’t make as good a title.)

This past weekend, we took advantage of some beautiful weather to picnic with family and take the canoe out on Old Hickory Lake. It was Corin’s first time in the canoe, and he was a fan. I think he would have slept in that thing if we’d let him.

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Lina still sporting her church finery

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That sweet face – 7 months

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Eline at 7 months:

  • Takes two naps a day in her crib, the first one usually fairly short and the afternoon nap lasting 2 1/2 hours or more
  • Goes to bed in her crib for the night at 6:30 or 7:00 and sleeps until 6:15 – 7:00 a.m., with two feedings in the evening (around 8 and 11:30 p.m.)
  • Sleeps on her tummy, unswaddled, and sucks her first and middle fingers for comfort
  • Still enjoys her play mat and now likes the Exersaucer for short periods of time (with a towel around her for extra torso support)
  • Can roll around the room and does not often stay in one place on the floor, and continues to practice crawling motions
  • Will often give big grins to anyone who takes a moment to interact with her
  • Takes 5 oz. mixed formula/breast milk five times a day and just started oat cereal, which has met with moderate success
  • Has one tooth most of the way in (bottom right) and is teething again, which involves a fever, fussing and crying, runny nose, poor feedings and fatigue
  • Can sit with support but tends to stiffen and prefer to stand on her legs instead, and is still wobbly in her upper body when unsupported
  • Responds to voices and noises (seems to startle more easily since the ENT cleaned out the ear wax) and babbles with a variety of noises, including the recent addition of “buzzing” and spitting noises
  • Loves to be held, kissed, cuddled, tickled and talked to
  • Is generally easy-going and content, a good sleeper and an awful lot of fun

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I heart that blonde, spiky hair.

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She is very interested in her feet.

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Getting sleepy…

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Fingers, blanket, cozy crib, and all is right in the world.

Babies, birthdays and big milestones

In addition to our high school reunion this past weekend, we were able to stop and visit my brother and sister-in-law, where I met my new nephew for the first time. I’m already missing sweet baby Luke.

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We also got to celebrate Corin’s birthday again, this time with Jon’s side of the family. Corin had his cake Saturday night, his Mimi made a big birthday brunch on Sunday, and then he opened gifts. (One of his gifts, an awesome Radio Flyer wagon, was already in commission outdoors by then.)

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He really hated the food.

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The doctor kit is a huge hit. We passed a college the other day, and I explained to Corin that it’s a school where people learn how to be things like lawyers, musicians, business people or doctors. “But,” he says, “I am already a doctor.”

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This exciting box…

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…turned out to be this VERY exciting gift.

It was a fun and very full weekend. Lina napped for seven hours a day the first three days we were home. I think she has finally recovered.

Which led me today to decide it was time to make up a batch of homemade oat cereal and finally wade into the waters of solid foods with baby girl. Given the difficulties we have had with feedings in her first six months, and knowing this can be a challenge area with DS, I wasn’t sure what to expect for our first go. As it turns out, she finished the small bowl I’d mixed up and actually seemed to enjoy it. We may have a challenge with that tongue wanting to push the food back out, but I’d say that today, Lina rocked this milestone.

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What? Do I have something on my face?